“There is not one big cosmic meaning for all, there is only the meaning we each give to our life, an individual meaning, an individual plot, like an individual novel, a book for each person.” - Anais Nin
Saturday, October 6, 2007
Memoirs of Surat
Outside the space station meant for 15, I see the road to the city dotted with grey grim looking buildings, most of them with cracks running through the facade in a criss cross pattern, interspersed by colourful bright new shiny structures...the now ubiquitous malls ! The contrast creates a jarring landscape of sorts. I have often see people pose in front of malls getting themselves clicked with cellphones and have wondered why. Perhaps malls have become tourist destinations of the present day. We spend our weekends not at the park or by the beach but at a mall. In new city, when i ask people for recommendation on which places to visit, 3 out of the 5 on the list are malls. Its a sad reflection of how times have changed.
Going further I happen to spot a hoarding, with a woman bending backwards on what looks like gigantic puri, with the tag line in gujrati that says 'har bite mein wellness'. The product in question - Trupti...a local brand of oil I guess. Though what is striking is how English words have infiltrated everyday lingo even in smaller cities. On an earlier trip to Lucknow, I came across women from a relatively lower socio-economic strata using words like coaching, diet, solid during the course of conversation
My last memory of Surat is walking into the house of the couple I am supposed to interview. A well spoken, seemingly well off couple, though living in a house that bears the same muddy grey look as what I found in the rest of the city. Something quite does not feel right ! At the end of my interview, we accidentally get talking about the floods in Surat a year ago. The lady of the house recounts her experience....of the water gushing into the house with just 2 hours of rain.....of not being able to save anything nor prepare for this situation....of running on the upper floor of her house with just a pressure cooker and a bag of potatoes from the kitchen...of living up there for 4 days eating just boiled potatoes cooked with newspaper as fuel. She points to the mark on the wall, the mark that runs throughout the house dividing each wall into two shades of grey...remains there as a reminder of how much water had collected in there. Silt that has settled itself into nooks and corners of the house and obstinately refuses to go! Her story interrupted by sudden burst of crackers and street celebrations as India defeats Pakistan and takes home the world cup. Next morning the newspaper headlines...Surat celebrates an early Garba !
Friday, September 21, 2007
Canvas 2
The lines I drew did not a picture make
And a silence filled up the empty spaces
The canvas lay still un-spoilt!
Friday, September 14, 2007
Amritsar Diary
The first thing that struck me in Amritsar was the contradictory worlds that co-exist in that one place. When saw a hip 20 something in her tight three quarter jeans greet someone who looked like a stereotypical punjabi middle aged village woman, with an anglicized 'sat sri akaal'. Outside the airport, one can't help but notice the sheer number of SUVs plying on the road. Even if you were less attentive to vehicular traffic the loud punjabi music barring from inside these fuel guzzling monsters would catch your attention. The shiny new Taveras & Boleros share their road space with dusty, run down cycle rickshaws, the bajaj scooter from yesteryears and sometimes even tractors !
Push v/s Pull
Once inside, the town follows a circular path. To go from any point in the town to any other, one has to cross a short over bridge, or so it seems! It is easy to separate the outsiders from the native crowd at this point. They'd be the ones who'd give the cycle rickshaw driver a breather as he trudges with his vehicle up the bridge, walking behind him and sometimes even offering to help with a nudge, while the local punjabi women sit firmly atop - unaffected by his plight. With a smug look across their face they stare at the un-informed traveler who has offered to walk.
Golden temple at midnight !
I am not sure whether this is the only temple in India that is open all 24 hours. It certainly is the only one I know of! The crowd inside even as late as 10 pm is unimaginable. One would have to see it to believe it. There were easily a few 1000 people in there and that was not a festive day crowd. Langar (free food at the Gurdwara) is served to anyone who walks in. One of the locals there tells us - in big cities there would be many people sleeping hungry but in Amritsar I doubt anyone would go to bed on an empty stomach. People eat and even sleep inside the temple. Sitting alongside the sarovar (the water body that surrounds the sanctum) and watching the golden hues that reflect on pitch dark ripples, with the sounds of the gurbani reverberating in the background is a truly elevating experience !
A D-shaped well
Jallianwala Bagh does not reflect the character of place which once made history! It is more like a public park that one would find in an average Indian city with huge signboards at the entrance forbidding people from plucking flowers! The only reminders of the massacre - is the narrow lane at the entrance that prevented people from running out and the Well at one corner of the bagh which people jumped into, to protect themselves. Strangely the well is D-shaped unlike any others that I have seen. Covered with a rusty mesh an all sides it is difficult to look too deep into its gaping mouth. Though when cheeks pressed firmly against the mesh when one peeps in - you see at the bottom some shallow green water with coins glistening from beneath. I wonder what makes people throw coins in water bodies - and it is not just an Indian trait.
Marwari Dhaba
I had perceptions about Amritsar before visiting. I imagined a place with people having a strong gustatory orientation sipping thick lassi and eating tikkas at local dhabbas alongside the road. These are conspicuous by their absence. The only reflection of what might be people's food preferences here - is a sign board that announces - 'daily needs - kulcha and sweets'. We settle for a marwari dhaba for want of an alternative. Inside I see a predominantly south-Indian looking crowd. It is a disorienting feeling to be in the punjab heartland, at a marwari dhaba and see a south Indian populace! One look at the thaali and that explains it - for people visiting from the other end of the country a place that serves them rice, pickle, papad - would be a delight. Not to mention it is pure vegetarian ! The only thing missing was in their meal was the thair !
Wednesday, August 29, 2007
Desh Ka Brand
I could tolerate Tata Namak saying it...Namak still had some historical symbolism associated with it - with Gandhi marching to Dandi, the humble salt was thrown into limelight. Then Parle G's hindustaan ki taakat was a bit of a stretch. At least the execution is not annoying. The Frooti ad really pressed all the wrong buttons!
The brand is a) fairly young to make that claim b) not even a staple, wholesome, rustic kind of product. Its a indulgent category and c) haven't we heard enough of desh ka yeh, desh ka woh
They could have at least saved the day with a better, more emotionally gripping execution...but no...they had to screw that up as well !
Hasn't enough been said and written already about our country brimming with diversity and contradictions? Very few things truly hold a pan Indian identity ! Given that, I wonder why brands try to become pan Indian and whether that really works for people?
What next...Desh ka Pepsi ?
Thursday, August 23, 2007
Work-Life balance on the blog
I used to write about work related stuff on this blog earlier - but the few readers that i had here threatened to run away and in the interest of keeping the work-life balance (It's a different story that work has completely taken over life, blog and all else these days) on the blog - I decided to branch off into another one. Thus was born 'The Qualitative Research Blog'
So if you have come to this blog looking for stuff on market research, please go here
Thanks for dropping by.
Reshma
Friday, August 17, 2007
Lucknow 2 years hence...
Last week...work took me to Lucknow again after a gap of almost 2 years. As the flight descended on tarmac of the Amausi airport, I was reminded of my last visit. Not much has changed in 2 years...at least on the face of it. The small airport with its courteous staff still bears a deserted look for most part of the day.
Outside, the streets...dusty with the arid summer air. The retail revolution has spread its tentacles far and wide – we see visible signs of the arrival of hyper markets, in the conspicuous orange hoardings for Spencer’s that dot the arterial road which connects the twin cities of Lucknow and Kanpur.
Saturday, July 28, 2007
Locked into contemplation
Today, seemed like just any other day. I spent the day working and pottering around the house doing chores. A friend dropped by in the evening, we spent a few hours chatting and she left. I stepped out to see her off, checked whether I had my house keys before stepping out...checked again and slammed the door close. Returned after 2 mins to find that the key would not open the door. Several attempts later it still would not open. I asked a neighbour to check whether they could open it. They tried...we were still outside the locked door. I decided to call the security guard who mentioned that under such circumstances - the plumber in the building usually climbs over from the balcony in the adjacent flat to enter the locked flat. So while the security guard went down to fetch the plumber, I sat and sipped mango juice at my neighbour's house. Thoughts buzzing in my mind...why did i have this nagging feeling this would happen...I decided to walk out without my phone...i checked whether i had my keys...i did...then why is the door not opening...it felt like a quirk of fate....I gulped whatever was left of the mango juice and decided to go down and look for the plumber who was going to climb over the balcony.
Couldn't find the plumber. He was absconding. How could he not be there... I asked the security guard to go trace him. Meanwhile another security guard stepped forward and volunteered to try his luck with the key. His attempt failed. He said he would try to climb in from the neighbour's balcony if he considered it safe. I prodded him to go have a look. Before I knew it the man was doing a balancing act on 4 inches of space - 10 floors above ground level with no support below. I watched him as he inched ahead one step at a time. In a matter of minutes he had jumped into the balcony of my house and opened the jammed lock ! I thanked him and he left.
I stood in the balcony staring at the narrow ledge he had walked on. I wondered what would have happened had something gone wrong, would i have forgiven myself for allowing him to take the risk? I also, wondered what motivates people like him to risk their life to help someone...to go beyond their call of duty....and why i so easily 'expected' a plumber or a security guard to take that risk so that i could enter my apartment. Would I have risked my life - to help someone in need? maybe not ! Why then, did his life seem less important to my eyes...